How to keep him dating and not have sex
and now he has stopped calling for no apparent reason whatsoever?
I received an email from a reader who went through this exact situation.
You need to think of sex and relationships as two completely different things that have nothing to do with one another.
What makes a man “see your worth” and end up FEELING so strongly for you that he wants a real relationship is something other than sex, and PHYSICAL desire, and ATTRACTION.
Here’s the thing…I don’t know if you see this, but you’ve moved on to wanting “something serious” right after you and he had sex, thinking that sex of course means there SHOULD be a relationship and he should feel the same way about you. The decision to have sex with a woman often has NOTHING to do with whether a man has decided that he wants to “date” you more seriously.
And sure, it would be nice if men were different and didn’t take sex so lightly.
But FIRST you’ve got to CREATE the right FEELINGS inside him – feelings that have nothing to do with SEX – for sex to end up truly bringing you closer in love.
Afterward, he has all the power.” I’ve told this to countless friends, both male and female, over the years and have been met with a resounding: “That is true!
So, what happens when men act like they’re not interested in anything serious, or don’t want a relationship, or they’re too busy to have one… And when he doesn’t feel it, there’s nothing a woman who doesn’t make him FEEL this way can do or say to make him want something more with her. They don’t want a woman to try to convince them that what they’re experiencing and feeling should be meaningful and loving. And he will not only be “open” to talking about something deeper and more meaningful with you, he’ll INSIST on it.