Gay dating bi guy
(FWIW, I am disease-free and would be monogamous in a committed relationship).
A bi woman would seem ideal, but a lot of them won’t date bi men either.
My friends would tell you that I am smart, funny, and charming. But the obstacles to my achieving fulfillment seem huge — I am scared that I’m going to just end up as another lonely, frustrated guy who dreams of being with women but knows they will never have him.
Bisexual Guy Looking For Chicks One of the things that we as a culture have slowly been discovering is that sexuality isn’t binary.
I know that women have good reason to be wary of men — I’ve had my own bad experiences with men, so I really understand.
But I would probably get frustrated quickly with a woman who expected me to always conform to a fixed role. I don’t know whether I want a full-blown romantic relationship with a woman, or something more casual.
Once again, I don’t how to find women who would be interested in a casual relationship where I would still be exploring my sexuality.
But I really need some kind of hint as to what women might give me a chance.And I’ve done some things to explore my desires for women — and, yup, they feel as real as any straight guy’s. Talking with bi guys on-line, they all have nightmarish stories of constant rejection, so much that some have given up dating women at all.So I’ve accepted that I’m really bisexual, and I want to make women a part of my life. I need to find women who would be open to someone like me. I know to rule out women who might have some religious or moral objections — no loss there.And hey, congratulations on finding these new, fascinating sides of yourself!
Now before we get deep into the weeds here, keep in mind: I’m a straight, cis guy.
There’re a lot of folks who have shitty ideas about what it means to be bisexual — that you can’t be satisfied unless you’re in a relationship with people of both (or all) genders at the same time, that you’re actually monosexual and just deluding yourself, that you’re just a stopping point on the way to being fully gay or fully straight… The truth is that there good people out there than there are assholes; it’s just that assholes are louder and more visible.