Daughter unhappy about father dating amherst ma dating
He was with another girl 7 years ago and he was with her 4 months when she got pregnant and he didnt want to keep it but she said shes keeping it and thats that.He tried to make it work but it didnt and they seperated, never got married.To try to make this easier on us, I had decided to leave my professional career in the city and relocate to his small town; I am trying to buy my own home there so there is no stress for us to be together immediately (he is already planning to rent out his house and move in with me.... I am struggling with the fact he has so much 'baggage', the daughter, the nasty ex and a hefty debt load from the failed marriage.I have no children, no debt and a successful career. I feel like I am the one giving up everything in this relationship (my job, my home), and what will I gain?He even told me that he would disown (yes, he did say that I swear! I was also raised to have christian principles i.e.) his daughter because his ex is a lunatic (no, not a real one but she certainly acts like one) and she would go to extreme lengths if she found out that he was to remarry. never date a man who is married or a man who has children.
Why should I think about satisfying my boyfriend paternal instincts and not think about the shame I would bring to my family and the disappointment to my mother? I am in a similar situation, and feel totally overwhelmed somedays.We can go party together and have a great time, not fight, and we have great communication.