Dating a woman with a baby
I had the summer off and spent that first year in the thick of it, alone with the girls all day, learning how to Dad. Now the bad news you wouldn’t expect: it’s hard to spend all day with little girls, when everything is fashion, puppies/kitties, dolls, and pony fashion dolls, and then slay your girlfriend in the bedroom the second she gets home.
All that love and wholesome childhood Moments royally messed with my testosterone.
Still, those first three years took three years to repair. She knows I dislike him, but not that I’ve planned his murder every day for five years now.
Also, it’s good manners to not share your thoughts on biological parents. He's a useless parasite twisting a girl's heart because he felt the need to mark his territory, never pays child support, and never spends visitations with her.
You're going to fail, but if you put the welfare of the kids you're raising before your relationship, the damage won't be so bad.
They are called personal preferences for a reason and we don’t need the approval of anyone else when it comes to what we like.
I was Momma bear to those cubs all summer while my girlfriend went to work and sexually harassed her secretary (in my head). Your own body trains you to take care of those kids.