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Ladies, if you’re dating a guy whose parents still cover his cell phone and Netflix bill, you have a problem.
The church has continually increased the age of independence for young men and it’s not healthy.
He has ordered his finances, his career, and his household to welcome the addition of another. You’re looking for a man who’s riding without training wheels.
Sadly, society has normalized this idea of leeching off your parents years into your marriage. Essentially, finding a man who has learned what it requires to sustain himself in this world is a strong sign he can sustain you.
So, what does this have to do with finding a godly man?The Apostle Paul even instructs the position of “fear and trembling” in Philippians .Because a man who is careful, who fears the Lord, and is diligent to rightly divide the truth is a safe man to marry.In other words, a twenty-something male raging with natural testosterone and a healthy sex drive, yet decides to postpone marriage by embracing a 2-3 year dating period followed up by the hesitancy of a proposal. Either he is a rare, incredibly cautious and self-controlled young man or he fits the statistics—meaning he’s releasing himself in front of a computer screen.
Sadly, the latter seems to be the case for most relationships today.
Now before I start, this article is going to upset three groups of Christian readers. In a culture being overtaken by an ungodly form of feminism, men are increasingly feeling intimidated.