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This does not happen in American culture, where women rarely make fun of themselves. American family dynamics is still something that remains a bit of a mystery to me.Which brings me to American girlfriend number five, who was paralyzed by her hoards of self-help books. In the UK, girls are open with their parents about sex and dating. Girlfriend number three, who came from a conservative family, would often talk about the importance of transparency and honesty, but would lie to her parents about where she was staying, afraid of what they might think of her.But surely not all American girls thought British men had an endless supply of money?They weren't all obsessed with fame and fortune, were they?It was a bit embarrassing when I finally met her, but hey, better be honest than conceal the truth?They had an extremely strong relationship and it was based on honesty and openness.
The Brit eerily reminded me of myself—she ate quickly, washed her food down with beer, and generally wasn't too concerned about how she might look to the outside world, let alone me.In Britain, we are self-deprecating to the point where we convince ourselves that we're utterly useless in life.I've always loved this approach: under-sell, over deliver. Where British women live in the moment, unafraid to admit their flaws, American women want to project an heir of success to the world.Money and salary is brought up frequently, and name dropping is prevalent in a good portion of conversations, especially in Los Angeles where status is paramount.
British girls, meanwhile, do not spend the same amount of money on themselves as American girls, nor do they expect you to spend a lot on them.
It was a night full of spontaneity, which American girls—naturally outgoing and vivacious—have perfected.